PROOF THAT PEOPLE ARE F...KED IN THEIR MINDS - PART 1

There are few points which will help you to identify if you are fucked in your head:

1. You say that life and this world is beautiful... Maybe your life is beautiful and maybe you live in a beautiful place in a luxury house but what about the people who live in poverty, who starve, who are homeless, who are sick and they have no money to pay for the doctor, who are forced to be slaves, who are forced to prostitute themselves, who are being abused etc. There are more people in this world who suffer than those who have easy and comfortable life. This is the proof number that you must be fucked in your head because you don't see it and you consciously deny to see it. You are blind. You make yourself blind. And I have just mentioned the people. And what about the animals of this world ? They suffer as well. Don't you see it ? And what about the pollution, excessive destruction of nature in the name of profit etc. ? Don't you see it ? Thus how can you say that life is beautiful ?

2. You say that you want to change the world but you do nothing towards it... There are many people who say that they want to change the world unfortunately these are just empty words. They find some excuses ( e.g. I am too small to change the world ) and they give up before even starting. They already realize that our world is in difficult situation and there must be done a lot to make it better but unfortunately they let themselves to be overwhelmed, they give up and let the destruction to continue.

3. You are against ( and you even kill ) those who want to make the change in the world... What is even worse then the people mentioned in the previous point is that there are also people in the world who say that they want to make the world a better place but at the same time they are the vicious enemies of those who practically act and work towards the change in the world. It seems almost impossible to believe that we have people like this on earth but this is true. And I am not talking only about those people from the elite and the governments who are in power and try to control the rest of the people with the intention to make profit. I am also talking about your friends, family members, colleagues from work etc. This point has been clearly seen with many people who joined Desteni Group and started to work towards implementation of new economic system called Equal Money System. It is obvious that this new system would make a better life for everybody but still the reactions of their family members and friends are unbelievable - instead of helping and joining they become vicious enemies of theirs. If you are one of them it is a proof number three that you are completely fucked in your head.

To be continued...

     

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MOUNTAIN OF PROBLEMS WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP - COMING BACK AFTER SEPARATION - PART 9

This is the continuation of the previous article:

MOUNTAIN OF PROBLEMS WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP - PART 1
MOUNTAIN OF PROBLEMS WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP - PART 2
MOUNTAIN OF PROBLEMS WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP - PART 3
MOUNTAIN OF PROBLEMS WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP - PART 4
MOUNTAIN OF PROBLEMS WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP - PART 5
MOUNTAIN OF PROBLEMS WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP - PART 6
MOUNTAIN OF PROBLEMS WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP - PART 7
MOUNTAIN OF PROBLEMS WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP - PART 8

The accumulative effect of mountain of problems will lead quite often to a break up of the relationship in a violent/explosive confrontation/discussion ( quite often accompanied by physical abuse ). It is a consequence of the discharge of accumulated energy generated from the friction between the partners as a result of not solving the problems in an effective way.

Thus the partners separate but after few weeks, months or even years they come back to each other and continue their relationship. And this is interesting... These partners come back to the relationship hoping that everything will be good this time and they are ready to go on the compromise and try to do the most possible to avoid the situation which led to the conflict. Unfortunately this is only the trap.

The mountain of problems which both of you have created in the past, still exists there. It only stopped growing in an accelerated way because you have been separated and the friction which was generating the energy has lessened or stopped. It is also highly possible - if the separation was for longer period of time - that the mountain of problems has got smaller because you have realized your mistakes and you have corrected them within you. But because it is rather unusual for people to process all of the problems and dissolve them completely thus the mountain still exists there and the difference is that it is smaller ( the weight on your shoulder is lesser ) and you feel better and stronger and believe that you can come back to your partner and continue the relationship.

But this is only illusion. If you come back to your partner but you don't change anything about how you live your relationship and you don't work with your partner on effective dissolving the mountain of problems from the past, it will all re-manifest itself and most probably quicker and stronger then before.

This is the reality of many relationships which lack the fundamental basic necessary for the functioning of satisfying and effective relationship. If the partners don't establish an effective way to communicate and solve the small problems they will accumulate into the mountain of problems and the partners will not be able to solve the big problems and it is only a matter of time when the relationship will fail - it doesn't matter how wonderful it is in the beginning of the relationship, it doesn't matter that you promise that you will love your partner your whole life, it doesn't matter that you have found you "soulmate" that you have been waiting for your whole life. Most of these relationships will fail. If you don't believe me then have a look at this world and investigate the facts and look at the statistics. You are not different then others. You only hope and believe that you are. You will only be different if you learn how to communicate effectively and solve the problems together with your partner. Only then you will have a chance to create and build a long term relationship, which will work and give satisfaction for both of you and the rest of the world.

Thus if you decide to come back to your partner after the separation it is better that you start working together as soon as possible on solving the problems which led to the break up in the first place.

     

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