SHOULD WE CELEBRATE NEW YEAR ? - PART 4

Then we have this thing with making wishes ( Happy New Year ). But what meaning does it have ?

If you stop and start investigating this point with making wishes it is something like:

“Happy New Year and fcuk off till the next year when I am going to wish you happy new year again ”  

Look… you may be sincere in your wishes but in the end you stop there and you do rather nothing to make this year happy for this person. You leave this responsibility to god, universe or some other higher force. But if nothing “happy” happens to this person for the whole year then there is not a big deal. You just say in compassion “I feel really sorry for you” and you make a wish so that this coming year will be better and happy. But if nothing happens then you do the same next year and so you are “locked” literally forever in the cycle.  

As you can see the negative aspects outnumber the positive ones. But even though the list with positive and negative ones was in favor of celebrating New Year’s Eve then we have that just this element with animals being terrified as a result of fireworks is big enough to forbid them completely.

At the moment we don’t really know why we make such a huge celebration of the “first hour” of a new year. We just do it “just because” everybody else does it… Even though other cultures and religions have their own calendar which does not match with the Gregorian ones they have still accommodated this event and habit. 

Personally I do not see any reason to celebrate the new year. And I do not do it. But it does not mean that you may not do it if that is so important to you. Just take into consideration that our current way of celebrating it makes harm to other beings who share this planet with us ( animals and not only ) and you completely ignore this fact. I am not surprised at all with this fact because we live in separation of our mind and ego and this is the “natural” outflow and consequence of it. 

So how to change this ?

Well… we take the simple approach of applying practically common sense and logic. Demonstrations and protests are rather not effective and the local governments will continue with the fireworks even though some people will oppose it. But if there is less and less people participating in these events then it will change itself automatically and easy without any violent crashes. So the obvious thing is to stop watching the fireworks or doing them privately at your own event with friends. And if you have any pets at home then you should definitely stay with them and give them comfort as much as you can. Under no circumstance do not leave them alone at home.

And so this is my point in regards to celebrating first hour of the new year. I do not celebrate it and I am one person less in causing harm to other beings on this planet by following some habits and tradition which we don’t really know where it came from. If you do the same then we will have 2 persons less. And if others do it as well then we will have 3,4,5… persons less. And so we will change the whole world even though we are “small and insignificant”. 

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SHOULD WE CELEBRATE NEW YEAR ? - PART 3

Now… not every dog or cat reacts in a similar way to the explosions of fireworks. But still this happens very often. And definitely it is much easier for animals to cope with it when the owner is with them at home as then they feel more safe. But this is not always the case and I know the owners leave their pets alone at home ( even though they know that this is a terrifying experience for them ) and they go to see the show.

And what about all the animals in the wild ?

They have their rest and then suddenly the fireworks start to explode. Tell me:

How would you feel if you got woken up suddenly in the middle of the night by the explosions of bombs or other things but you would not be able to comprehend where it comes from and whether this is threat to your life ?

Well… you have probably never thought about it… or have you ?

Look… on the 31^st of December I went in the evening to eat dinner in the restaurant. Literally 5 meter away from the balcony on which I sat there was sudden explosion of the fireworks. And I got scared. Because I know what it was then I got myself stabilized almost instantly. But the animals are not prepared for it and they don’t know what is happening.  

If you live in the mind and in the separation then obviously you do not see these things or even if you see them then you always find a justification and you continue with it.

You’ll see… just this thing with the animals terrified by the explosions is a reason good enough to suspend FOREVER the shows of fireworks. But if that is not enough then I can give you more examples in contra.

Look… another thing related with the celebrations of New Year is drinking champagne, other alcoholic drinks and of course taking drunks.

Do I have to tell you what are the consequences of it ? I am certain that it is not needed as this is obvious thing.

Then another point is that people leave a lot of rubbish and break a lot of glass ( for luck as they say ). But why do we have to leave such a mess so that the city square looks like a battle field ? 

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SHOULD WE CELEBRATE NEW YEAR ? - PART 2

So now - once I have asked myself the question “WHY” should I celebrate the 1^st of January as a new year - I should try to find the answer.

And when I think a little bit about it then the only reason why I should celebrate the new year on the 1^st of January is because everybody else does it. That is fine. There should be not a problem with doing things because the rest of people do them. But before we make the decision to do these things we should investigate and analyse whether it is not causing harm to others and in the best scenario we should take into consideration the principle of what is best fall all. So that means that we should look at the point whether the celebrations of new year are good for every being on this planet.

So the first thing which is being associated with the celebrations are the fireworks. They look cool and personally I really enjoy watching them. And the best place to see the show is to be as close as possible to the launch platform so that the explosions happen right above my head and so that I can hear the sound of explosions. On couple of occasions I have watched the fireworks from the mountain but because it was few kilometers away then the sound was coming with the delay and the whole show was not the same. And the same is with watching the show on the TV. It does not matter how spectacular it is, it will never beat the experience of being directly under the explosions which happen right above your head with the black sky in the background.

Now… although from time to time somebody gets injured or gets burns during the explosions, in general the fireworks show is rather safe if people follow the safety rules. And for this reason we should not discard organizing these shows just because somebody drunk has done something stupid and he got injured.

But you’ll see… there is one point which most of us omit or ignore. The principle of what is best for all includes that which is best for all beings on this planet. And this all includes also animals, insects etc.

And you’ll know what ?

The fireworks shows are not good at all for the animals. If you have your pet at home then you should know how scary it is for your puppy when the fireworks start to explode. If you don’t a dog or cat or any other animal at home then I am certain that you have heard more than once about it but then you simply ignore it.

Look… when I was kid I used to visit my grandmother during my school holidays. Then I remember the moments when the plane was passing the sound barrier and in this moment there was a noise similar to an explosion. On couple of occasions I saw that the dog of my grandma running away from the underneath the tree where he was resting because he got seriously scared. And then I also noticed that he had the fear and resistance to ever go back and seat under this tree.   

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SHOULD WE CELEBRATE NEW YEAR ? - PART 1

So here come the 31 first of December and big part of humanity celebrates the beginning of new year.

But why do we celebrate it at all and when was the very beginning of the celebrations of a new year ?

I am 40 years and this is really the first time that I am asking myself this question. I am not into celebrations of birthdays, Christmas or New Year but then this is the first time when I am asking it. Before that I was accepting it as something normal and I did not bother to stop for a second and ask the “WHY”.  

But why should I make my life so complicated and question it instead of having fun with my friends and enjoying the show of fireworks ?

You’ll see… I am not with my friends at the moment because I worked all day and I am tired. And then I also have my responsibility ( commitment ) to write my daily article. Anyway… I am here writing this article about the celebrations of a new year and I am absolutely thrilled that I have come to the point when I ask myself the “WHY”. If I was with my friend then I would certainly not bother to question anything and I would be just like always following blindly our tradition.

So I am here asking myself the question “why” and I am incredibly content that I have asked it. this is really fascinating because I have been participating in the celebrations of the new year for some 35 years and I have never asked myself the question why.

You’ll see… this is one of these things which are right before your very eyes but yet you do not see them. And the problems is not so much with the weakness in the eyes but rather with the believes which we create in our mind and which are like a veil which does not allow us to see things with clarity.

And so I have my little realization which gives me incredible satisfaction.



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BUSINESS NEGOTIATION TECHNIQUES THAT YOU WILL NEVER LEARN IN HARVARD UNIVERSITY - PART 4

So... we are continuing with our unconventional business negotiation techniques although in this article we are not going to discuss the techniques directly. But because the subject of this article is closely related to the whole story thus I have decided to publish it under the same title.

Now... before we continue I would like to be sure that you have read part 1 to 3 of this article.

DAY 41 - BUSINESS NEGOTIATION TECHNIQUES THAT YOU WILL NEVER LEARN IN HARVARD UNIVERSITY - PART 1
DAY 42 - BUSINESS NEGOTIATION TECHNIQUES THAT YOU WILL NEVER LEARN IN HARVARD UNIVERSITY - PART 2
DAY 43 - BUSINESS NEGOTIATION TECHNIQUES THAT YOU WILL NEVER LEARN IN HARVARD UNIVERSITY - PART 3

If not than please do it now. It is important that you are familiar with the story because I would like to ask you a question. I am certain that various people will have different reactions while reading these articles: some of them will be shocked and feel sorry for the businessman who has been tricked into signing unwillingly the contract, some of them will be afraid that something like this may happen to them etc. But I'm very curious and I am very interested to know how many of you - while reading this article about this businessman - have asked yourself the question about the naked girls in the sauna: who are they ?, where do they come from ?, why are they doing it etc.

The first and most obvious answer that comes to our mind is that these girls are prostitutes and they are doing this for money. Well... this is not necessarily true and I will explain now why. This businessman sharing this story with his friends and accidentally also with me because I was seating next to them in the restaurant and I could hear the whole story, has explained it all. He didn't want to have sex with this naked girl or girls from the sauna even though they were very attractive and beautiful. But because the host was insisting that he chooses one and he didn't want to upset them, he agreed to choose the girl and to be taken by her into the private room. But there he didn't do anything with her what would normally be done by others ( I mean he didn't have sex with her ). They had a drink and they had a conversation.

After a while this girl started to trust this businessman and she explained him her situation in it. She told him that she comes from a small town. One day while she was walking on the street somebody stopped a very luxurious car next to her, 2 people got out of the car and started to talk to her. They have explained that they are from a very famous model agency and that they are looking for new faces and new models etc. In the end they have offered this girl to come to their office in the capital city for the casting etc. They have said that they will pay for the flight, accommodation etc. and if she gets through the selection from many other girls who will also come to the casting, then she will be offered job in their agency.

Everything sounded very interesting at that moment for this girl, she has agreed to participate in the casting and the selection at the agency in the big city and couple of weeks later she was on the plane. She was a little bit nervous because she wasn't sure if she will get through the selection but at the same time she was very excited because it was all new experience for her and there was the possibility to get a well paid job and maybe become famous model, which is the dream of many young girls.

Unfortunately in the end the fairy story has turned to be a nightmare. When she arrived to the appointed place her passport has been taken from her and very soon after she was explained what kind of model she will become. She was told that she must do all that she is being asked to do or otherwise something unpleasant may happen to her and her family. And so she understood very quickly that this is not a joke and these people are capable of doing this kind of things. And apart from this they knew the address of her family because she told them everything while filling in the form during the process of arranging the "casting" for her.

At the end of her conversation with our businessman she asked him not to tell anything to her boss because otherwise she would have a lot of problems and who knows what would happen to her.

And here we are. Our host ( person B ) is so generous to person A while saying: "choose the girl... it's on me...".

To be continued...

     

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SCHOOL IS BORING

In the last few days I have been talking a little bit with the university students and from this conversation I have figured out that the education in the last 20 years has not changed at all. It is the same as it was when I was a student and it is simply overloading students with unnecessary knowledge ( forcing people to memorize ) which is in 80 - 90 % not practical and within the short period of time after the exams it will be almost completely forgotten.

Thus the question is why do we spend so much time of our life ( up to 20 years or sometimes even more ) trying to memorize things which are not practical and not necessary ? And on top of it you have to pay a fortune for it ( in many countries ) if you are a university student.

Where is the logic in it ?

We all know that this is completely senseless but yet we are doing it year after year and we are not changing it. And why not ? You know yourself that most of your classes ( when you were at school ) were boring. And would it not be fun to learn something practical that you can use in life. I remember my experience. Few months after I have graduated from the university I have joined a college of natural medicine to learn massage. And I had fun with it because it was something practical that I could use immediately after I have learned it.

And this was the point. It was all practical. And it was fun. And it would be exactly the same if we were teaching our children practical stuff. There would be much fewer problems with difficult children at school too. And I know it also because I have a friend who is a teacher in a school which follows a Waldorf's program. And it is all different there. The children are different and have fun.

Listen... you have had your experience at school and you remember that it was fucking boring so why do you let your children go through the same shit ? Do something to change it.

If you would like to do something and change it you must understand that our current school system is aligned with the economic system which wants to make as much profit as possible and thus the change must also be applied to our current economic system. Thus have a look at Equal Money System because this would give a sound foundation for a new school system.

     

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PREDICTIONS FOR 21-DEC-2012 AND REACTIONS OF PEOPLE - PART 2

This is the continuation of the previous article:

PREDICTIONS FOR 21-DEC-2012 AND REACTIONS OF PEOPLE - PART 1

Ok... and what about me and what I think about the 21 Dec 2012 and Mayan prophecy about the end of times ? On the contrary to my friend I have been involved into spirituality and the new age movement for about 20 years and I have investigated this topic quite thoroughly - I have read about it and I have heard many different theories from other people involved into spirituality.

And you know what ? I don't believe ( actually I am certain ) that nothing will happen on the 21st of December. There will be planet alignment which is unusual event because it happens once in 26,000 years but it is only unusual when we take into consideration a span of human life. But in the life and the existence of universe ( which counts the time in billions or maybe trillions of earthy years ) this is just a normal event - just another cycle. It is just unusual for people who make most wonderful stories in their minds about this event. You know... in the mind we can imagine anything we want and it could be the most beautiful wish, dream or desire but in the end it is just fiction - it is not real.

The reality is different. I don't have to write about it here. Just look yourself on the news and on internet. And you know who has created it ? Yes... us ( people ). It was neither god nor devil. It is just that we don't want to admit it and take responsibility for it because that means that we would have to work our asses off to make the change in the world because the mess is enormous and it will require a lot of effort to change it. And people got used to have comfortable life and thus to avoid the hard work we would rather create a belief ( excuse ) about the god, the savior or miraculous event ( shift in consciousness, planet alignment ) which would clean the mess for us in an instant so that we could continue our comfortable life.

But the reality is different. We will still be here on the 22nd of Dec 2012 and we will have to go to work ( those who are lucky to have one ) and deal with the shit that we have allowed and created in this world. There is only 2 possibilities to get out of the shit that we are in right now. We either continue the way we do it now and we will destroy life on this planet completely ( at the moment this is the direction that we are heading for ) or we get our asses of the comfortable sofa and start working together and cleaning the mess.

Thus it will be interesting to see the reactions of so many people who allowed themselves to accept the belief about the mysterious event on the 21st of Dec, 2012 and when they see that nothing happened of what they have expected. Some will wake up and start to ask questions about the spirituality, new age, Armageddon etc. but there will be also those who will come up with another idea that the event will happen somewhere in the future and they will wait for it. Because this is what so many of us want - we want to believe in something in the future instead of being here and working with what is here to make a world which is best for all.

To be continued...

     

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PREDICTIONS FOR 21-DEC-2012 AND REACTIONS OF PEOPLE - PART 1

We have only less then 18 days left to the historical moment when the Mayan calendar ends... 21 December 2012. According to some theories this is the moment when the world ends but according to others this is the moment when we will enter into a new dimension and in that process of shifting into 5th dimension the world and human consciousness and mind will be transformed by the strong energies on the galactic equator and we will live in a better world of harmony, peace, love etc.

Anyway there are a lot of theories about it and this especially popular topic among the spiritual and new age groups. But what about the normal people on the street who don't know much about the meditation, energies etc. ?

Today I had a chance to listen to the phone conversation of one of my friends. He was trying to warn his friend that between the 19th and 24th there will be series of some disastrous events ( like earthquakes and tsunamis ) as a result of the planets alignment. After this conversation I have asked him few questions because I was really curious where from and what kind of information people get about this event. He explained to me that it was his mother who has told him some time ago about the Mayan prophecy but then he mentioned that he observes the news and the situation in the world and it make sense to him that we need population reduction in the world.

It was obvious to me that he could not explain to me what, when and why in details because he hasn't spent much time investigating it but still it has got to him some information about the event of 21st of December 2012.

And what is his plan of action regarding this event ?

His sister is completely freaking out and wants to hide in the higher ground but my friend takes an approach that if it is meant to happen then it doesn't matter where you are, it will get you.

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PROOF THAT PEOPLE ARE F...KED IN THEIR MINDS - PART 1

There are few points which will help you to identify if you are fucked in your head:

1. You say that life and this world is beautiful... Maybe your life is beautiful and maybe you live in a beautiful place in a luxury house but what about the people who live in poverty, who starve, who are homeless, who are sick and they have no money to pay for the doctor, who are forced to be slaves, who are forced to prostitute themselves, who are being abused etc. There are more people in this world who suffer than those who have easy and comfortable life. This is the proof number that you must be fucked in your head because you don't see it and you consciously deny to see it. You are blind. You make yourself blind. And I have just mentioned the people. And what about the animals of this world ? They suffer as well. Don't you see it ? And what about the pollution, excessive destruction of nature in the name of profit etc. ? Don't you see it ? Thus how can you say that life is beautiful ?

2. You say that you want to change the world but you do nothing towards it... There are many people who say that they want to change the world unfortunately these are just empty words. They find some excuses ( e.g. I am too small to change the world ) and they give up before even starting. They already realize that our world is in difficult situation and there must be done a lot to make it better but unfortunately they let themselves to be overwhelmed, they give up and let the destruction to continue.

3. You are against ( and you even kill ) those who want to make the change in the world... What is even worse then the people mentioned in the previous point is that there are also people in the world who say that they want to make the world a better place but at the same time they are the vicious enemies of those who practically act and work towards the change in the world. It seems almost impossible to believe that we have people like this on earth but this is true. And I am not talking only about those people from the elite and the governments who are in power and try to control the rest of the people with the intention to make profit. I am also talking about your friends, family members, colleagues from work etc. This point has been clearly seen with many people who joined Desteni Group and started to work towards implementation of new economic system called Equal Money System. It is obvious that this new system would make a better life for everybody but still the reactions of their family members and friends are unbelievable - instead of helping and joining they become vicious enemies of theirs. If you are one of them it is a proof number three that you are completely fucked in your head.

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MOUNTAIN OF PROBLEMS WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP - COMING BACK AFTER SEPARATION - PART 9

This is the continuation of the previous article:

MOUNTAIN OF PROBLEMS WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP - PART 1
MOUNTAIN OF PROBLEMS WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP - PART 2
MOUNTAIN OF PROBLEMS WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP - PART 3
MOUNTAIN OF PROBLEMS WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP - PART 4
MOUNTAIN OF PROBLEMS WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP - PART 5
MOUNTAIN OF PROBLEMS WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP - PART 6
MOUNTAIN OF PROBLEMS WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP - PART 7
MOUNTAIN OF PROBLEMS WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP - PART 8

The accumulative effect of mountain of problems will lead quite often to a break up of the relationship in a violent/explosive confrontation/discussion ( quite often accompanied by physical abuse ). It is a consequence of the discharge of accumulated energy generated from the friction between the partners as a result of not solving the problems in an effective way.

Thus the partners separate but after few weeks, months or even years they come back to each other and continue their relationship. And this is interesting... These partners come back to the relationship hoping that everything will be good this time and they are ready to go on the compromise and try to do the most possible to avoid the situation which led to the conflict. Unfortunately this is only the trap.

The mountain of problems which both of you have created in the past, still exists there. It only stopped growing in an accelerated way because you have been separated and the friction which was generating the energy has lessened or stopped. It is also highly possible - if the separation was for longer period of time - that the mountain of problems has got smaller because you have realized your mistakes and you have corrected them within you. But because it is rather unusual for people to process all of the problems and dissolve them completely thus the mountain still exists there and the difference is that it is smaller ( the weight on your shoulder is lesser ) and you feel better and stronger and believe that you can come back to your partner and continue the relationship.

But this is only illusion. If you come back to your partner but you don't change anything about how you live your relationship and you don't work with your partner on effective dissolving the mountain of problems from the past, it will all re-manifest itself and most probably quicker and stronger then before.

This is the reality of many relationships which lack the fundamental basic necessary for the functioning of satisfying and effective relationship. If the partners don't establish an effective way to communicate and solve the small problems they will accumulate into the mountain of problems and the partners will not be able to solve the big problems and it is only a matter of time when the relationship will fail - it doesn't matter how wonderful it is in the beginning of the relationship, it doesn't matter that you promise that you will love your partner your whole life, it doesn't matter that you have found you "soulmate" that you have been waiting for your whole life. Most of these relationships will fail. If you don't believe me then have a look at this world and investigate the facts and look at the statistics. You are not different then others. You only hope and believe that you are. You will only be different if you learn how to communicate effectively and solve the problems together with your partner. Only then you will have a chance to create and build a long term relationship, which will work and give satisfaction for both of you and the rest of the world.

Thus if you decide to come back to your partner after the separation it is better that you start working together as soon as possible on solving the problems which led to the break up in the first place.

     

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DAY 42 - BUSINESS NEGOTIATION TECHNIQUES THAT YOU WILL NEVER LEARN IN HARVARD UNIVERSITY - PART 2

We are continuing our article about business negotiation techniques and go to day 2 ( the final day ). On the previous day the person A was in the sauna drinking alcohol. As I said before alcohol, heat and humidity have much stronger and quicker effect on a persons consciousness than in normal drinking in the bar and if you are not aware of it than you may find yourself being completely knocked out very quickly. Somebody may say: "well... shit happens" and simply laugh at this person because that is what humans do when they listen to other people telling with pride their stories of how drunk they got at the party, how much they vomited and how big hangover they have the next day.

But we may not forget that the person A is on a business trip and in the process of signing the final contract worth millions of dollars. Anyway it is almost guaranteed that the person A will wake up the next day with extremely strong headache and other symptoms of hangover. And this should not be a surprise. But person A will be extremely surprised when he wakes up with extremely strong headache and after few minutes or more he will realise that he is already on the plane, the official contract is lying in front of him and it is signed by him but he doesn't remember how and when he did it. He will try to remember how it happened but he will only get some glimpses of memories of the last day and it is the result of drinking alcohol in the sauna. But we should also not exclude the possibility that the drinks had something added to it to make sure that the person A gets intoxicated and "loose the film" ( memory ) for sure.

This is the most probable outcome of the visit to the sauna. But there is also a possibility that person A is very strong and doesn't get intoxicated very easily. And if for some reason the person B will not be able to get the signature of the person A than the negotiations will continue on the 2nd day. But before we continue with day 2 we have to point out that no matter how resistant to alcohol and other substances this person is, there will be always some form of compromise in the behavior and self awareness. And this person will do things - that he would normally not do - much easier. Of course your hosts ( business partners with whom you are negotiating the contract ) will continue being nice and friendly to you and they will have "genuine" laugh with you about what happened on the previous day. You will finish another official business meeting discussing the last details and hopefully sign the contract.

But you know how to negotiations function. Both parties have their objectives ( limits ) which in the beginning are different and during the negotiations both parties go on compromise and in the end they meet somewhere in the middle between their initial objectives. Of course there is also a possibility that person A will not be completely satisfied with the negotiations about certain small details to the point that he will not want to sign the final contract. And no arguments and offers of a person B will be satisfying enough to sign the contract. Well in this case the person B will present his last and final offer which will discard any doubts that they are the best business partners in the whole world with whom person A should sign the multimillion dollar contract.

I will remind you once again that no matter how resistant somebody is to alcohol, he will in some way be influenced by it and he will do things that he would normally not do and he will not always remember everything what he did. Thus the person B will show - with the "genuine" smile on his face - the person A the video record of what he was doing the night before with the girl or girls which he has chosen while being in the sauna and which have taken care of him in the private room. And in this case person A will have to make the choice between compromising on the little differences which stopped him from signing the contract in the beginning of the negotiations or being exposed and possibly loosing the job, your family, friends etc. Most of the people will choose the first option.

Now... the same applies to the person A which has woken up in the plane with the signed contract without knowing how and when. If he tries to question the legality of it and he will try to revoke and cancel the contract, he will also be presented with the video of him being with the naked girls ( or boys or whatever ) in the private room. As I said before person A is under strong influence of alcohol or other substances and is not conscious and aware of what is going on with him and thus we may not exclude that our friendly hosts have arranged some really nasty stuff like recording that he is having sex with under-aged persons which means imprisonment if the judge finds out about it, maybe the person has signed the contract in which he has agreed to sell his house in his country to a person B for little money and in the case of objecting signing the big contract he will loose his house, his wife will be shown the video etc.

As you can see our hosts are very "friendly" but at the same time they are very creative, their business negotiation techniques are unbeatable and almost nobody can resist their arguments when it comes to final phase of the negotiations.

And you have thought when you finished your Harward University that you were taught the best and most effective negotiation techniques in the business world. Well... as you can see you are wrong. The person B hasn't graduated from best universities in the world but still his techniques are more effective then yours.

I remind you once again that this is not a fairy story. This is happening for real. I have heard it ( by accident ) while having lunch in the restaurant and listening to the people next to me talking about it. And they were the top executives from big companies.

To be continued...

     

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DAY 41 - BUSINESS NEGOTIATION TECHNIQUES THAT YOU WILL NEVER LEARN IN HARVARD UNIVERSITY - PART 1

This is not a fairy story. It is all real and it is happening in the business world.

Let's say that you are a director of a big company and you are going on a business trip to finalize the negotiations and sign a multi-million dollar contract. Here there are various scenarios of how it happens and I will only describe one of them.

Let's say fly for business meeting to another country for negotiations. On the first day you are discussing the final details of the contract in the conference room. And of course while you are there you are being treated in the best possible way. In the end you are negotiating a multimillion dollar deal. Thus you are staying in the 5 star hotel, you are being invited to a luxurious restaurants etc. Later in the evening after the business meetings you are also being invited to a wellness center so that you may also discuss the small things in the relaxing atmosphere. You have a shower, you go to the sauna etc. Usually it is all very luxurious and there is nothing really special about it until certain moment.

Thus you are seating inside of the sauna room with the other guys with whom you are negotiating the contract. You are also being served some alcoholic drinks while being inside there from time to time. During negotiations in the conference room you would never drink alcohol but here you are thinking that you are already unofficial and this is more of a relaxation time ( most of you probably already know that drinking alcohol in the sauna has much stronger intoxicating effect than when you drink it in the bar ).

You have taken already few drinks. You are not so serious anymore and you start to believe that it is all fun and relaxation. Suddenly the door opens and there are entering the room very beautiful girls in high-heeled shoes but apart from this shoes they are not wearing anything else - they are completely naked. They enter the room and they put themselves in the middle of the room in a row. You are a little bit shocked in the beginning because you don't know what is going on. You didn't expect anything like this when you were invited to go to the wellness centre. Thus you ask the other guy or guys:

A: What is going on ? What are they doing here ? Why do they have attached numbers to their hands ?
B: Well... you may choose.
A: What do you mean "I may choose" ?
B: That is what I mean. You choose the girl.
A: Yes ?
B: Yeah... don't worry... it is on me.
A: But I don't want to.
B: Common... just choose the girl and she will take care of you.

All the time you are being served alcoholic drinks and because the heat of the sauna enhances the intoxication much quicker so you start being affected by it - you are not so serious anymore. You don't want to offend the host thus you choose one of the girls and after some time she takes you with her to a private room. What is happening in there, I don't have to write anymore because it is easy to imagine.

And so day 1 of the negotiations is finished.

P.S. Sometimes the person A will not want to choose the girls even though the host strongly insists that he chooses one. But that is not a problem for them because their hospitality is extremely good. The girls leave the room and after a while there comes a group of good looking boys.

To be continued...

     

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2012 -WHY I DON'T TRUST POLITICIANS ? - PART 2

This is the continuation of a previous article: “WHY I DON'T TRUST POLITICIANS ? - PART 1”

But if the woman is wise then she will take a breath, stop the emotional reaction of butterflies in the stomach which make her blind and irrational and she will ask herself a question:

- does this man really love me ?
- do his words and action are one and equal ?
- does he show with his deeds in every moment that he loves me ?
- does he also love other people and animals ?
- does he do what is best for all in every moment ?

If she falls into the trap of beautiful but empty words of a man who wants to have sex with this woman and this is the way to get it ( just like the promises of the politicians which raise the emotions in people ) then her relationship is going to be just like the career of the politician - she will be used and abused in the same way as the politicians abuse the position of power in the government for their own needs. She will get disappointed and eventually they will break up.

Here is very important question: will she do the same mistake in the next elections when the next man comes into her live and will try to get her support with beautiful words ? Knowing the psychology of humans and their addiction to feelings generated by beautiful yet empty words I would say that the answer to this question will be yes. The same as we do with political elections every 4-5 years.

And this is the main reason why I don't trust politicians who use beautiful words of grander without showing me that they live them in every moment as themselves. And you know what ? Once you live your words in real life you don't need to write beautiful speeches on the paper because then you will be able to speak in any moment without the preparation. And your words will be reflection of truth and they will carry the true substance of you because every words that you speak will be the living word ( the word that you speak and live it ).

I have also noticed very similar type of behavior with people who are in court. And to get a lesser penalty they just say the word “I am sorry”. I am sure that you have noticed it too. They are not saying it because they are sorry but because they should and because they will get lesser verdict.

Ok… what can we do now in the next elections to come if almost all of the politicians are liars ? Maybe you should become a politician yourself and then make sure that your promises are not empty promises. But first you must understand and prove for yourself that your words are living words and you act in the best interest of all. If you want to learn more about the “living words” have a look at people from Desteni Group. We are making video logs on Youtube and other social media and there you may see and hear that we don't read from the paper when we speak. We talk about our experiences and things that we have proven for ourselves and we live the words that we speak. And these are the people that maybe you should consider to vote for when we start forming and creating the Equal Life Party in the years to come.

P.S. Did you know that the politicians ( especially the top politicians like presidents, kings, queens etc. ) are using very often the professionals who write them appropriate speech. The speech doesn't come from them at all. It is written by somebody else who is using appropriate words. And I have heard that Erich Honecker who used to be the leader of the communist party in East Germany had a professional writer who was getting paid big sum of money ( equivalent to many thousands of euro ) for each speech. Will you trust somebody who is saying all the beautiful words of grander but in reality he is reading somebody's else's writing and on top of it, the writer also doesn't give a shit about the words that he is writing ? Would you get married with somebody who says that he loves you but he would read a letter written by somebody else ?

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2012 -WHY I DON'T TRUST POLITICIANS ? - PART 1

Well… I guess I'm not the only one who doesn't trust politicians because people talk about it openly all the time. We have been promised by the candidates in each electoral campaign that once we vote for them they are going to fix the problems, improve the unemployment, lower the taxes etc. They lure us with beautiful words and promise us everything that we want to hear to gain our support for them but once they are being elected, the time goes by and their electoral promises are still hanging in the air. And the same story happens time after time, election after election. Thus this is the reason why eventually people stop trusting politicians and call them openly “liars”. This is even being stated in the dictionary when we look at the definition of politician:

POLITICIAN:

1. a person who is active in party politics.
2. a seeker or holder of public office, who is more concerned about winning favor or retaining power than about maintaining principles.*

*http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/politician

WTF… This has already become so obvious that even dictionary talks about it. And this is also the reason why many people don't even participate in the voting anymore because they have been disappointed many times and they know that the situation is going to repeat itself again.

And of course I also take into consideration this point when I say that I don’t trust the politicians because of their empty promises from the past. But the main reason why they don't trust them is this:

I don’t trust them because when they make a speech they are reading it from the paper.

Everything else is perfect: they make perfect surrounding and create appropriate atmosphere, they smile, they have open body language etc. but...... And this one single “BUT” is a very important “BUT”. They don’t speak it live BUT they speak from the paper. And I didn’t learn it from any book or from anyone. I have had this knowingness of it in me always and almost every time whenever I listen to somebody reading from the paper then there is something not “right” about it, something is missing and there is emptiness in the words. As a teenager I didn't understand what it was but later in life it all has become clear to me. When the politician makes ( reads ) a speech from the paper he/she is using big and beautiful words because they want to gain the support from people this way. They do it and people vote for them - it is effective way to gain voters. But this is not just the fault of the politician and I do not want to judge and blame them for this. Because the voters allow themselves to fall into the trap of manipulation through beautiful words thus both sides are equally responsible for the consequences of having politicians who are liars. They lie, we believe them and accept it, we applaud them, clap the hands, we vote for them and we have another 4 or 5 year term with the liars in the parliament – simple as that.

Thus the candidate or the politician is using big and beautiful words because he wants to win the support of the voters. But the words are empty and they don't carry any substance whatsoever. And I am sure that you know what I'm talking about. There is a huge difference between the word spoken in a speech because it sounds great and people respond to it, and the word that is spoken by person who is living the word in real life. Let’s take some big words like “love” and use it as an example. I could organize a surprise and take a woman to a beautiful place at the sunset, make a beautiful flower arrangement, buy a diamond ring and say to her: “I love you”. And if she is just like the voters who clap the hands and starts having the tears in her eyes because apparently I have touched her heart then I will have a girlfriend or a wife. But if the woman is wise…

To be continued…

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2012 - IS PRAYING TO GOD AN INVESTMENT ? - PART 2

This is the continuation of the previous article: 2012 - IS PRAYING TO GOD AN INVESTMENT – PART 1 ?

5. Now let's have a look at the whole process or making a prayer to god. There are various methods:

- we go to the church, we make the prayer, we give some coins to the priest for leading the mess and we go home hoping that god will answer our prayer one day.

- we do the prayer at home, we take the rosary, repeat the prayer so many times and expect the same result.

- some people also offer something to god or charity hoping that their good deed will please god and he will answer their prayer. In regards to the offering of something to god to please him we’ve had various forms of it throughout the history – apart from giving money to the priest, in the past we were killing the animals or even the children because we were convinced that this will please god.

Now let's have a look at the definition of the investment. What is an investment ?

“…Investment is the investing of money or capital in order to gain profitable returns, as interest, income or appreciation in value…” *

Do you see the similarities ? The whole process of prayer looks like one of the best investment opportunities. You give some small coins to the priest ( your costs ), dedicate your time to prayers and weekly messes in the church** and expect to get a profit ( thousands or even millions of dollars ).

If you are not into giving the coins to the priest then there is also very common practice when you promise god that after you for example win the lottery ( thanks to the intervention of god ) you will give a certain percentage of it to the charities. This is also another form of investment. The final costs of it are maybe higher*** but at least you pay the costs only if the investment is profitable ( low risk investment ).

But this doesn't make sense at all. If God is so powerful and able to intervene into the laws and regulations of the lottery then why doesn't he give the whole jackpot to the charity directly himself ? To be possible for god to give money to charity he needs to help you to win the jackpot and only later you will give 10 - 30% of it to charity. There is no logic in it at all !!! And by the way why would this almighty god need to use the lottery to give money to a poor people and charity ? Why doesn't he create the money himself and gives it to all poor people directly ? By interventions into the laws of lottery god would be fucking up completely the rules and regulations of Bernanke’s Federal Reserve System and I assure you he would not be happy at all about it.

These are the facts. But of course if you believe strongly in god then you will not see it this way at all. You will see it as heresy, you will feel offended and hurt inside. You will not be able to read this article at all. You will reject it, you will try to defend your beliefs and maybe even attack me and everybody else who is trying to shake up your self-created beautiful believes about almighty god. But you know what ? This is just “normal” reaction because all of your beliefs that exist inside of you make you blind and you don’t see the facts even though they are here right in front of your eyes. You see it but you see them through a filter which distorts the reality but at the same time you think and believe that you are completely right. Ask yourself the questions and look just at the facts:

- What is the reality in our world ?

- There is starvation, poverty, hunger, war, crime, prostitution etc.

- Why God in his almightiness doesn't change it ???????????????????????????????????


*http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/investment
**time is also defined as capital in the world of business
*** when you go to the church every week for a mess you usually pay about 1-5 $ for the priest while in the second option people usually promise about 10 – 30 % ( this is called negotiation in the world of business and investment ) of the total prize from the lottery which could sometimes be few millions of dollars ( 10 % from 10 million $ = 1 million $ for charity ).

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2012 - IS PRAYING TO GOD AN INVESTMENT ? - PART 1

I know that this is a bit touchy topic because I will be talking about God and we have been taught and convinced into believing that everything that comes from God is perfect. Thus we should not question it or in any case criticize him. But I am not trying to attack god at all. I am just looking at the things the way they are in front of me, just looking at the facts. I leave on the side the beliefs ( e.g. that everything that comes from god is good and perfect ) because the believes and hopes make us blind and we act completely irrationally.

In general every religion is based on the concept that our lives on earth are some form of preparation and test before we go to heaven and experience eternal bliss while being next to God. We have been also convinced into believing that this material world is something not important because all that matters is heaven – the invisible, non-material, eternal world after the death.

Thus let's have a look at the facts when it comes to praying to god for money.

1. As I said before materialistic world is being treated by religious people as something not important, as something that is dirty and degrading to the soul. But the fact is that we are here and we must live here until we die. And while we live here we are subject to the rules of this material world. Thus we have to eat, drink, wear cloths, get a house, go to the doctor etc. And all of those activities of our daily life will run smoothly ( for majority of the humans ) if we have money.

2. Another fact related to it, is that in the capitalistic system there is limited amount of money and majority of us struggle to get them. We try to get the money in every possible way but there simply isn’t just enough of them and this has a great influence on how we function every day because if you don't have money you will have no food. The most common way of getting the money is through getting the job or making own business providing various services and goods in exchange for money. But even then we are not getting enough of them and we are constantly searching and trying different methods to get more of them including robbery, lying, cheating, prostitution or even killing sometimes. Some of us are lucky and they win the lottery or inherit a fortune from a family but this doesn't happen too often.

3. Another way of getting the money or rather we should say a method of trying to get money is by asking God for it through the prayer. As a matter of fact this is something against the principles of the religion because as I said in the beginning, the religion is looking at the material world as something degrading to the soul and thus we should not ask god about material things. But no matter what the principles of the religion says, asking God for money is one of the most common subjects of our prayers. This is another fact and I have to admit that I did it myself too.

What is the efficiency of it ? Well… There are people who say that their prayer has been answered by god. But in general it is difficult to prove it because many people give credit to god for something that was a consequence and normal outflow of their actions ( including the law of attraction ) or it was just a coincidence. Apart from this there are no precise statistics about it and as I said before not all people would admit that they are asking God for material things. But without having any statistics about it all we need to do is just to look at this world and then the answer should be clear. There is too much suffering and starvation, which indicate that praying to god for money is not effective. And I guarantee you that most of those starving people pray to god for food and money. But even though this is so obvious ( 1 billion of starving people on earth ) we don't want to accept that there is something missing here. Either we pray in a wrong way, or god just ignores us completely or he doesn’t exist at all. We find some silly excuses trying to explain why god hasn't answered our prayer yet and we continue praying, and praying, and praying… But the fact is that this is not as effective as we think and believe it is.

4. Why do you pray for money to God ? Does God have the printing machines to print the money ? Of course you don’t look at this from this point of view. You have been taught and made to believe blindly in god and his unlimited wisdom and power. But the fact is that God doesn't control the money because the money has not been created nor printed by god. By praying to god for money we state that he should make a phone call to Ben Bernanke ( the chairman of the Federal Reserve System ) and tell him to give you the money. Or maybe we should be rather praying to Ben instead to god ? Of course the chances of Ben giving us the money are very slim because this would be against the rules and regulations of the capitalistic system ( inflation etc. ). All that he would do is saying: “I can give you money but you have to pay me the interest for it”. And this is the fact.


To be continued….

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“WHAT IS SEX ?” - HOW TO HAVE A BETTER SEX & ORGASM ? - PART 2

This is the continuation of a previous article: “WHAT IS SEX ?” - HOW TO HAVE A BETTER SEX & ORGASM ? - PART 1.

In any case sex is what we want and what we desire. But do we really understand it ? If I ask a simple question about it like: what is it and why do you do it ? You would most probably answer: because it feels good, because it is “natural”, because you cannot live without it so why should you resist it etc. But all of this is very superficial. You just follow your instincts, which in reality are “programs” engraved deeply in your subconscious and unconscious mind and you just do it believing that this is natural instinct. And I bet that most of you have never ask themselves more detailed questions related to this topic ? For example:
What is sex ? Why do we have sex ? Why it is that we as human beings think of sex all the time ? Where does orgasm come from ? What is happening with the energy from the orgasm ? Why only rarely both of you get the orgasm at the same time ? Why do we masturbate ? What drives us that we must masturbate ? Why we cannot stop masturbation ? What are the consequences of masturbation ? What is relationship ? Why do we have butterflies in the stomach when we fall in love ? Why do we cheat in the relationship ? Why do we break up ? And many more…

I am not asking you to stop having sex because in reality there is nothing wrong with it. But the problem is that we do it because we have been taught and programed to do it. We are just automated robots doing exactly what the program says. We call it natural instinct but in reality - for most of us - this is just another robotic program. I know that you want to object it and push away from you what I am saying here. And this is just another automated self-defense mechanism. Anyway… You decide for yourself if you want to continue participating in the illusion that has been created in our world around the topic of sex. I just want to say that there could be much more to sex then what we are being taught in a traditional way. But you will never know it unless you stop participating in the illusions. When you know what is real then you will know what illusion is. But this never works the opposite way. You will never know what is real as long as you live in a fantasy because you believe that this fantasy is the only reality.

If you would like to find out what sex really is then I would recommend that you start researching, investigating and educating yourself about it. And you will not learn much about it by watching porn on internet because this is also fake. The porn stars are just actors who are being paid money ( a lot of it $$$$$ ) to do what the screenplay says. But again this is not real.

Thus I recommend that you start with Desteni. They are offering an excellent course ( “ Agreements – redefining relationships“ ), which will help you to understand thoroughly the origins and the nature of sex in all the aspects of it. And once you have the understanding of it you will have a chance to explore it from a different starting point. You will have a possibility to experience sex not as an illusion or fantasy but as something real. And I cannot write anything more about it because the only way to know it, is to experience it for yourself.

Apart from the course, Desteni is also providing educational material in the form of audio interviews and e-documents which you may get here ( eqafe.com ).

Enjoy !

P.S. This is for all of those who desire to have sex with the perfectly looking and beautiful models from the magazines. You make fantasies in your mind about it and you imagine yourself having sex with this person. Most probably this will never happen but yet you desire it and at least you can masturbate while imagining it in your mind. But do you really think that in real life they fuck as good and as perfect as they look in the magazine ? When you fuck you cannot make it better with photoshop anymore !!!

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“WHAT IS SEX ?” - HOW TO HAVE A BETTER SEX & ORGASM ? - PART 1

Sex ,sex, sex … This word has over 600 millions monthly searches on internet done from our PC and laptops. But this is not all. We may not forget that we live in an era of advanced technology and more and more people use mobile phones and other mobile devices to connect to the internet. And these people have made more than 400 mln searches. Thus altogether we have over 1 billion !!! searches for sex on internet per month.

Interesting… Isn't it ? Thus no surprise when people say that “sex sells”. If you want to make a profitable business then invest into sex industry and people will find you and you will money of it.

Now we should ask some questions. What is the reason that people are looking for it ?

The obvious answer is: “because we desire to have sex”.

But we may ask again another question: why people are looking for it ? Don't we have wives, husband's, boyfriends, girlfriends, lovers etc. with whom we do that stuff ? Maybe we do but - obviously for some reason - whatever we have is not enough or it is not what we really want. But are we going to have ever enough of it ? Maybe this is just another addiction ? Because the behavioral patterns of the people in regards to sex are in many cases matching exactly the patterns of addiction. Have you ever thought about it ? Most probably you didn't.

Also we have to consider another element. We have never enough of it and we always search for more of it because we have created some sort of fantasies in our minds in regards to sex and perfect relationships. But as I said this is fantasy which can never be fulfilled. This fantasy has been created in our minds right from the early years of our childhood. It has been initiated by our parents telling their children beautiful stories of “happily ever after”, reading them books about it before they go to sleep and letting them watch all these beautiful cartoons about it without explaining what is real. And later in life this is being continued by television, internet and the whole media industry in general.

Look at all these beautiful pictures of perfectly formed models on the posters, in the magazines, on television etc. They have perfect bodies, no fat, no wrinkles, white teeth etc. But this is not even real ! Most of it has been edited in Photoshop. It is fantasy. It will never be fulfilled because this doesn't exist in this reality. But yet you have been tricked to believe in it. You have been brainwashed and allowed yourself to desire it. You have become this desire and you are constantly searching and trying to find the ways to fulfill it at all cost. You are blinded by it and you don't realize that this is not possible to achieve.

The “marketing” which started right from the early years of your childhood has been effective and we can see it clearly - more then 1 billion searches for sex on internet every month is the reflection of it. The relationships that we have are almost never good enough because we always search for the fulfillment of our fantasy.




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